YOU ONLY LIVE ONCE. Nov 25, 2020 - Explore itsokaytobewhoyouare's board "wear whatever you want" on Pinterest. What you don’t realise is that while I was taking those photos, every car that passed me slowed down to get a better look, and I’m SURE I saw at least one person smirking in amusement as the sight of the stupid blogger twirling in a skirt that no one around here would even consider wearing. If you’re trying to figure it out, we’ve got some ideas that might make it a bit easier. If you ever see someone wearing one I'd say probably about 87% of them have a phone sitting in there. I remember playing dress up as a little girl. That's a good parent (my opinion). What I don’t tell you is that I sometimes wish the people who know me in real life wouldn’t follow my blog, because I worry about what they think of me, and am paranoid that when I’m not around they say things like, “Oh my God, did you see those photos Amber posted? Wear whatever you like! Also it helps that when people catch me twirling in a public place while my boyfriend snaps me like the paparazzi, I simply convince myself they’re trying to work out if I’m famous and when they obviously can’t place me at all, think it’s their fault for not being cool enough and likewise if there’s no camera, I like to pretend they feel bad for not looking as awesome as me… Or something. Whatever the reason, though, the result is that they end up wearing clothes that aren’t really “them”, just so they can fit in – and that’s a real shame, isn’t it? Often, people have unfair reactions to other people’s behavior in all sorts of ways, and clothing is no different. To me, students wearing whatever they want is more than just to wear whatever, it’s part of our freedom of expression. 2. I love your sartorial sense of course, and combined with the ease and familiarity of your writing style, it feels like this is more two girls chatting over a cup of tea than a blog post, which is a very, very good thing! When it comes down to it, you can mostly always wear whatever the heck you like and in most cases won’t and shouldn’t need to think too much about it. I got comments about wearing black all the time, as if it was a moral choice.and not a colour. Plus, wearing whatever you want can take away your attention for school which is not okay!!!!! Clothing is a means of expression, and everyone deserves to express themselves in the manner they believe to be the truest to themselves. Most are just dicks who have very narrow world views. If you like fitted clothing with a drape or jacket, wear them. They cost $70, but I … If you want to wear fishnets, a miniskirt and a low cut shirt, all that means is that you’re proud of your body and feel comfortable showing it off. If you want to make a political fashion statement while voting, you may want to check your state's rules first. Fantastic article, Amber. I no longer felt insecure because I was finally feeling like my outer appareance matched my inner one. It’s good to know that I’m not the only one who often has a crisis of confidence over what I wear, particularly on the blog. I honestly don’t care about trends even in the slightest: I’ll wear whatever I personally like, and it doesn’t matter to me if it doesn’t look good on me, fit the latest trends or if others don’t like. If you ever see someone wearing one I'd say probably about 87% of them have a phone sitting in there. Whether you’re just starting out or you’ve been at it for years, you may find yourself wondering what scrub color you should be wearing. 2. If you truly want to wear something or make a change to your body, first jot down on a piece of paper and think ‘why’ you are not doing it. But then, I think parents should allow their kids to wear whatever they want. So here are a few things I do to prevent this, as told by the outfit I … In other words, wear whatever the hell you want, because as long as you feel confident, you’ll look beautiful. It depends on what state you live in. Girls, wear whatever the hell you want. WHO CARES WHAT PEOPLE THINK!! Home / Girl Talk • Life • Life & Travel / Wear Whatever You Want to Wear, Pretty Please. It is extremely easy to pass judgment upon others based on what they wear. The thing with Asos is that the dress will probably be soldout by the time you click, but have no fear...it WILL come back in stock, and there are others I have listed below. See more ideas about fashion inspo, fashion, fashion outfits. It’s about how you see yourself and how you speak to yourself in your mind. I agree wholeheartedly with you on this. You’re right, life is short. If that’s going to happen anyway, and if that’s the worst that can happen, you might as well just wear what you want, right? “You can never be over-educated or over-dressed.” -Oscar Wilde. Wear whatever the fuck you want while working from home. So here are a few things I do to prevent this, as told by the outfit I … “It’s Tuesday” or Of course, you must gauge the kind of customer you want to attract when you get ready in the morning, but in general, this occupation is lenient about appearances. In some states, students can wear their hair any way they want as long as it's not a safety hazard (like if your hair is very long, you have to tie it back during a science experiment). Don’t listen to people who want to define you entirely by your age – or your weight, or anything else – because one of the great things about being an adult is that YOU get to decide what’s appropriate for YOU. One of my biggest mistakes I ever made in life, was learning to dress to the satisfaction, comfort, and liking of others. People will comment, so why bother. She must really think a lot of herself, huh?”. Don’t be like me and shy away from wearing something you want because someone else has convinced you not to. But then, I think parents should allow their kids to wear whatever they want. After all, it is your body, right? I came to realise that the person who laughed at me from their car when they were driving past that time had probably forgotten about me by the time they’d turned the corner. I’m 7 months pregnant and my wardrobe has mostly consisted of dark colours as I was not willing to splash out a lot on maternity clothes and well it is winter so my cosy black and grey cardigans have seemed most appealing.. however I’m already nervous about embracing my ordinary colourful wardrobe again.. which is silly because I LOVE my colourful wardrobe. Here’s why. Of course, in order to do that I would have to throw away most of my clothes! Today, I wear whatever the hell I want, and try not to think twice. That independence also gives your child control in a world where he doesn't get much. So, go ahead, wear those leggings and that baggy shirt, not because I’m telling you to, but because you set the rules to your own body. After all, it is your body, right? So let’s go back to my college years, specifically to one of my first freshman barbeques. Lately I’ve had quite a few comments like this from people who want to wear a particular look, but don’t have the confidence to do it, for one reason or another. Often, people have unfair reactions to other people’s behavior in all sorts of ways, and clothing is no different. There I’d be, looking back on my life, and one thing I knew for sure was that I definitely wouldn’t be looking back thinking, “Yeah, I’m so glad I didn’t wear all of those amazing dresses I bought! 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